Friday, 8 April 2011

Islands of Mania - A first novel by Yohanna Abdullah

Chapter 1: Benched Beauty

Out of Space

I’m running out of space
So I’m off to outer space
Where aliens unlike humans lure
The bold and the pure
My episode begins in bed
Where past, present and future wed
When hurts, thoughts and hopes careen wild
Mixed with regrets and guilt freshly filed
I want to strip naked to my very core
Spin freely with kids in tow

Am I Eve looking for a reformed Adam?
For a change, maybe Imran, Ibrahim or Saddam?
My promised spaceship arrived, aptly an ambulance
The bewildered husband cries, shattering the silence
He who was a traitor to family and community
Knows not the change he has effected upon me
Infidelity can slide the mind to the edge of insanity
When reason can no longer provide excuses for treachery
The soul in sorrow reaches for the Heavenly realm
In sanity, veils are lifted; a new vision takes the helm
The journey to outer space
Mirrors the one in inner space
The line separating the two is as fragile as ice
When the heat’s turned up dreams melt into lies
Alysha Nassir
Bukit Cahaya Hospital
July 1998

24 December 1998

The sky had darkened and threatened to rain with thunderous growls leaping across the storm-brewing clouds. Yet the heavens were droning with more ominous sounds of a mechanical kind - those of jet plane criss-crossing in an intense military exercise.

Lying on the bench, in her red heavy cotton Indian princess cut gown Alysha stared at the slate-grey sky, convinced that the end was near. The little spat of a war between two Asian Tigers to trigger The End had begun and she would wait her own demise in the smaller scheme of things.

The first drops pelted harshly, as drizzles, but like hard smacks from pebbles dropped by passing pigeons. The feeling was not entirely unpleasant, and now, eyes wide shut, she imagined if she was to be sentenced to death by stoning, would the steady rhythmic pelting just melt away as her consciousness give away to an other-worldliness?

Alysha lay deadly still, wondering just how long it would take before the sky or bomb would fall on her, or the rain would suffocate - it was beginning to do just that, flooding her nostrils. Was it possible to die by drowning in a monsoon on a hospital park bench and would it count as suicide, she idly mused.

Her lucid thoughts were rudely interrupted by the attendant nurse Joe who joked, “Hey, Sleeping Beauty, waiting for your Prince Charming? You’d better come in before you catch your death from a cold and break his heart.”

“No, this is not how the story ends, I’m meant to lie here till the end.”
“The end of what, Alysha?”
“The end of the world.”

A pious Muslim who shared her world view he replied, “There’s enough time for that yet…though of course the signs are aplenty that we are approaching the hour of doom, Alysha…come on, you have much to live for, your children will be here soon.”

Never seen without his faded green knitted cap and always humming prayers in his spare time, Joe had the most sense of humour among the four male nurse attendants who ran errands and most importantly stood guard at the main door of Ward 7 which was kept locked except during visiting hours when they have to be most vigilant. The most foolhardy and slippery patients chose this chaotic period to run for freedom. In truth, the nurse attendants were either, aged, beer-bellied, as skinny as a broom stick and do not actually enforce security - for that, the hospital has the uniformed security forces at its beck and call to literally tie up all the loose ends, screws and nuts. However, their kindly presence did seem to have a deterrent and a calming effect on patients who frequently sought their affable companionship. Smokers forced to go cold turkey by their families often tried successfully to squeeze a cigarette or two from them.

Dripping wet, Alysha stepped indoors. Her brand new dress, a present from her sister from her pilgrimage to Mecca, trailed bloody dye which merrily stained the antiseptically clean floor of Ward 7 Bukit Cahaya Hospital. Anita, the loud, vivacious Indian cleaner promptly wiped the mess clucking that she looked like a sacrificial lamb in a slaughter house. Two other nurses in bright cheery pink, one deliciously fat and radiant, Annie, like a pretty hibiscus and Lisa short and effervescent like a dwarfed, curvaceous, hot-pink Virgin bottle ushered her to the toilet and bathed her, changing her into a set of ultra-feminine pale pink hospital pyjamas.

Someone who would be normally called a ‘modestynik’ in America for her adhesion to the Islamic principle of modest clothing and sexual behaviour, she laughed like a shameless hussy, not the least bit unsettled by the immodesty of the situation. After all, at the height of her manic-depression, she had bared all in front of her stunned mum-in-law as she giggled and spun her children joyously naked in the living room of her claustrophobic three-room HDB apartment. Once sane again, she would be mortified to learn that mania knew no modesty, only an innocent, sensuous, unpredictable, uninhibited appetite.

She was careening and dangerously free like a whirling dervish sucked in a multi-storey urban concrete whirlpool. The old lady who guiltily witnessed her unraveling over her son’s office affair and the sudden outpouring of old hurts directed at her, screamed futilely for the neighbours to help. As usual, at times of excruciating need, the neighbours’ fire-proof doors were padlocked tightly and were deaf to the pain of its next door inhabitants.

It was well that no mortal came to their rescue for Alysha, it was meant to be a private moment between her and a tired adversary whom she had tried in vain to love and win affection. Her energy had been depleted leading to the point when Alysha had finally challenged her respected elder to fulfill her oft-repeated wish to live on her own, a dare she knew the feisty and fiercely independent lady would never back down from. The very same day Hendon had applied for a rental flat and though Adam, in his usual sullen silent ways said nothing, he notched up yet another unspoken grudge against his wife.

Alysha who was groomed for frankness by her temperamental mom Zaynab as a weapon against her errant father, defined the naked moment of truth, as the ultimate ‘in your face’ - a symbolic act to shed all false pretenses to love this difficult woman and show the ugly hatred and hurt she had been nursing privately and openly amongst her confidantes and thus finally and hopefully purge it out of her diseased system. She had tried, really tried to understand and love this hardened, street-smart woman, stubborn and close-minded, dragging her own ten-ton bag of toxic nostalgia from an orphaned and abused childhood, a broken marriage and a lonely life with the confusing discharges of menopause thrown in. Hendon had not been prepared to lose her sole child to his marriage and bitterly mourned his loss even though he lived under the same roof as her and that the bride was the one who left the warmth and loving comfort of her parent’s home.

For 10 miserable years, Alysha had been increasingly tired of feeling hate for someone who ought to be loved and respected, exhausted at the guilt of wishing death upon her, terrified at her own evil thoughts, depleted by this obsessive hatred which is draining her own self-love and respect and that of her husband’s for he was caught in between two women he love or has it just become two women he despised for hate begets hate?

The ‘expose’ was also perhaps an unconscious symbolic reply to her dream, years ago of the wrinkled woman, Hendon, sagging breasts, dry, greying hair flowing, bursting into her bedroom while she and Adam were making love. She appeared to Alysha like a pontianak - the restless spirit of a woman who dies at childbirth and appears as a beautiful woman and changes in a twinkling into a monstrous old hag. Hendon had cleaned the bedroom toilet before walking out of the room in a trance like a sleepwalker.

When Alysha told Hendon of the pontianak dream years later, she attributed it to an evil spirit that lurked in the house that haunted even the new owners of the flat. Yet to Alysha, it was painfully clear that the dream symbolised her anger at Hendon’s frequent intrusions into her private space, obsessively cleaning every inch of her matrimonial home (which was in fact Hendon’s and her son’s, as the former always reminded), including under her bed and her lingerie drawer, and expressing her disgust at the proliferating dust bunnies and the flimsy, quirky, and sexy pieces. Alysha had been most embarrassed by the Sleeping Beauty trilogy the only mildly pornographic material hidden under the bed, a set of novels, a parody of the fairy tale by horror writer Anne Rice, written under a pseudonym when she was less famous. It was an erotic present for the bookworm from Adam, something she could at least appreciate unlike the blue film from Desker Road he once brought home which she henceforth banned for their little artistic value. Watching professionals doing it did not turn her on, only cheapen the sexual act meant only for husband and wife. Even the Playboy and Forum magazines they had come across while house-sitting her cousin’s house she found trashy reading and did not want Adam to be hooked to such stuff and reminded him not to surf on the pornographic Internet sites.

In truth, she craved for a spiritual sexual union, bound by love of God, with proper prayer rituals before and after and during the sexual acts as prescribed by Islam which integrates morals and spirituality into a whole life code and ethos. She felt hollow and disappointed from a spiritually mismatched partner, even though she knew that would be their greatest obstacle from the start. But her problem was she had great faith in every soul, even the worst scum of the earth - and Adam was scumilicious when Alysha met him.

Hendon, who used to clean like a woman on rampage, spilling anger and spouting bitterness would vent bile on the little bits of hair in the otherwise squeaky clean toilet. They earned her ire provoking comments like “aren’t’ you embarrassed when your father comes to use your toilet and see all that hair?” Alysha was so annoyed at the paragon of cleanliness who kept the house full of 20 stifled, stinky felines, whose tons of shed hair she was allergic to, that she burst out crying at the unfairness of the accusations. This was the same woman who on the first visit to her home had commented to her parents, “Young ladies in campus nowadays have to run after the guys, if not they would be left on the shelf.”

It was clear that the two who had such disparate experiences and gap in education would never see eye to eye on many things and there was no point arguing, “My dad too sheds pubic hair in the toilet which gets caught in the filter cap and from where we come from, no one bats an eyelid. It is a fact of life.” But she had kept her anger quiet out of respect for authority, for didn’t the Prophet say, you shouldn’t say 'Urff ' or some irate grunt-like sound to parents. She was full of more than rude four-letter grunts for parents that it was clogging her system.

“You are my dwarves, am I Snow White?” asked Alysha to staff nurse Lisa who kept pestering her about the stunt she was pulling in the rain. The warm shower was lovely, but being dressed by others wasn’t fun - it was not so nice to be a princess or a queen, she mused, returning to the comfort of her childhood fairytales. Being English-educated and raised in a convent school by a mother who was an anglophile, she had grown on a staple diet of fairy tales and books by Enid Blyton Books, Alfred Hitchcock, Carolyn Keene and other famous and less famous authors. The little Malay folklore she knew was picked up in her Malay Language classes in school with tales like the strongman Badang who acquired extraordinary powers from eating the vomit of a creature, and other silly exotic tales like Bawang Merah Bawang Putih and Batu Belah Batu Betangkup from Malay movies. She used to wonder why the widow in the latter story threw herself in the man-eating cave called just because her son ate her share of the fish roe she had been craving for, but now Alysha realised that that poor woman must have been suicidal, and was suffering from depression after the death of her husband, having to fend for her family alone. Alysha’s childhood dreams were more filled with fairies, brownies, pixies and other unseen creatures of the English folklore than the orang bunian, jin, pontianak and toyol of her Malay heritage, thankfully so, for the latter were more spine-chilling scary, being closer to home.

This other world caught up with her while she was ill, first, when she sensed its evil presence at times, trying to penetrate into her weakened mental state, trying to take possession of her over-wrought mind. Then, there was the witchdoctor or bomoh that Hendon did not waste not time summoning to cure her, for in her worldview, Alysha had been possessed by a genie or jin who was occupying their three-year-old bungalow in Johor that the young couple had bought and were having difficulties financing. The house was visited only during the weekends and sometimes more infrequently leaving it vulnerable to burglars and more ominously, vagrant spirits. Alysha, in her confused state had wandered and spent the night there, leaving her eight month-old nurseling, Danial behind and dragging her two-year old toddler Eyman with her.

When the bomoh, a small old man tried to cure her by reading some chants and squeezing some limejuice into her throat, she choked and struggled and saw instead, a towering angry giant of a jin, wearing a black stone ring. She felt like he was choking her to death and decided to surrender and was surprised that when she did, the pain stopped and the ritual ended with him asking her to take a refreshing lime and floral bath. She cheerfully did that with her children, glad that one ordeal has stopped though conscious that she was still a prisoner in a nightmare which was just beginning.

While in the hospital shower, reality suddenly intruded, as it would every now and then, that she must have “lost it”, to have thought that Malaysia was really dropping bombs on Singapore over the yet again strained relationship on matters such as water supply, railway land, status of the Malays etc…and of course, wasn’t it plain nutty to scream the world is going to end so soon, even if the time bomb was silently and surely ticking away?

Alysha had gone to the highest authority at the stunted rocket of a building at Toa Payoh for some confirmation, to help prepare the Muslim community of the impending doom. As she was in business with the Muslim Board of Singapore, she had knocked on the doors of the Grand Mufti of Singapore who looked like a slimmer and sterner version of Santa in a various shades of grey Safari suits, which were his most favoured work attire.

When she announced that Doomsday was nigh, he had kindly asked her if she was facing family problem and advised her to read a chapter of the Quran to help soothe her jangled nerves. He tried to read the surah but for the life of him couldn’t recall it. At that moment, she suddenly she saw his pristine white robe or jubah slipped and lost a tad of faith in him and wondered if he was indeed just a ‘rice bowl Mufti’ as many unsympathetically dubbed him to be. She adored him anyway.

Alysha knew that was why she was in this homely hospital anyway, to recuperate, lose these apocalyptic notions and just unwarp, though no one has said so much that she has gone mad, not once in this safe halfway house she found so alienating and threatening at first. Had she joined the ranks of the cultic apocalyptic groups who were angry and disappointed with civillisation or the lack thereof and were just waiting for The End of the Never Ending Story? Japan especially had more than its fair share - remember the deadly Aum Shinrikyo Sect which launched the sarin attacks in the subways? Was she beginning to think like the leaders of some of these sects that she had a special hotline to God in these troubled times? It was more likely that her mind was troubled and was reaching for the heavenly realms, shunning the filth of the earth, temporarily.

Actually, upon arrival at the modern Bukit Cahaya Hospital, which prettily means Mount Light in Malay, she thought she was sent into an alien spaceship - the emergency theater, octagonal shaped, with a life-size poster of Teletubbies attended by a Hongkong accented doctor with a triangular ET-shaped face carried on a theme already stuck in her head. This illness was causing her thoughts to flow fast and furious like super speedy bullets she can actually see them ricocheting in her brain, triggering one thought after another like in her favourite word association game.

Earlier at home, she had declared that God has had It with his Creation and the world was going to end and explode due to overwhelmingly high proportion of corrupt and adulterous male world leaders - Bill Clinton, Anwar Ibrahim and Mahathir Mohamad were all caught in some sex and political scandals. She had even explained how the sins of the forefathers, detailing those of her parents (her dad too was recently discovered to be involved in three, not one but two secret polygamous marriages, two divorced, one still married) and Adam’s parents (divorced while he was a baby) and Adam’s (who was caught holding hands in the MRT with Jannah twice one week by a friend) had cause God to allow an alien species to take over the world and which was currently sucking the life force of the little children who were to be the sacrifice. The earth and its inhabitants would be dead soon in a disaster which would leave only the last remaining men and women with true passion, vision and mission in life, people who were true to the highest ideals and were incorruptible in the face of temptations.

So, Alysha waited for her spacecraft and her friends, the most interesting people in the planet one with whom would have fun exploring the frontiers of space and time and finding at last her true soulmate, to replace the jerk of a husband whom she had convinced herself to fall in love with when she wanted to marry and have children. Her friend Rahmah, who had the most imagination will be able to conjure up the spaceship, there was no need for NASA to build its failed rockets, and as she waited she wished for some of her former boyfriends, probably jerks to in their own way, but who had true passion, vision and mission and were nonetheless true to their boring spouses. While waiting for the spacecraft, beside one of her best friends Hannah, she imagined who else would be on board this magical journey to Heaven, which was just one way of getting to this elusive destination and finding her long-lost soulmate. Was there only one true soulmate for every person? How many frogs do you have to kiss before you find your prince? Long ago she had decided the answer was ‘Once, if you are a princess, for it is a true princess’ kiss that turns frogs into princes.’ Now she’s not to sure if she is a true princess, for her prince had left her for a toad. They were not living happily ever after. Reality sure sucked. She needed to change her life script. By the way, how many partners do men and women have in heaven? How come she always gets the idea that women have one and men have many? Wither the justice, even in heaven or was that a blasphemous thought. She made a mental note to do more research and get the facts right, before jumping to conclusions.

Adam had promised her that her flying machine a.ka. ambulance would arrive soon after he and her father Nassir fetched supper of spicy, colourful Indian rojak from the 24-hour restaurant. She had walloped the colourful balls, savouring every spicy prawn flour ball, soybean cake, jelly-like cuttlefish, and gritty liver with her tired and surprised neighbour who had returned from her midnight factory shift work. She ate with gusto when manic, her senses finely awakened to her surroundings, able to record the moments almost in minute photographic detail. Her children Danial, barely 1 and Eyman, 4 had gone asleep, Hendon, was crying in her room, mom who had arrived was sitting nervously with Sarah her best friend, pondering about the night’s melodrama. Sarah had been especially frightened when Alysha said that there was something evil in her and she should really strive to be a better person. It was true, she saw the darkness and light as clear as night and day when in this sensitised state, awakened to the below-the-surface realities of things.

Zaynab since her calm yet concerned arrival had received a cold shoulder. Alysha had somehow envisioned her and Hendon as a two-headed snake who made her life hell in more ways than one. Alysha spied a cockroach scrambling up the wall, confirming her suspicion that as much as Hendon tried to keep the cramped flat clean, it was as filthy as the mind of its dominant occupant, who focused on the bad side of things when it comes to the people she disliked. Alysha’s mind was unspooling interesting ad lines like Nike’s ‘Just do It’, ‘No Fear’, a mixture of English and Malay proverbs like Don’t Throw the Baby with the Bath Water and Awas, Ular Kepala Dua….she was chasing rabbits and the Mad Hatter like Alice in Wonderland.

When Alysha saw the attendants in white uniform, bringing a wheelchair, she cried and had a fleeting thought that she should have escaped by jumping off the corridor and fly like she often do in her dreams - now that was her closest shave to a coroner’s misadventure or suicide verdict. Wouldn’t it have shattered her family? She bawled all the way in the ambulance, terrified that her husband was conspiring with the men in white with the aliens who were taking over the world, provoking fresh tears from her guilt-ridden husband.

At the emergency room, past 2 a.m. a screensaver on a computer by some science fiction writer said “I do not fear computers but I fear a world without computers”…something like that, and a TV screen showed a head scan of what Alysha though looked like an alien’s head and she desperately pointed at her husband. “These people are aliens, and they want my head!”


She looked for an escape route and pulled Adam to the toilet and begged him to switch to her side. Alysha saw her reflection at the mirror. Could three sleepless nights reduce her to this wreck? Something evil was turning her into a monster, her skin was blackening, spotting, disintegrating, and now she sense her husband is some part of a conspiracy. He assured her and led her to her bed where the uniquely beautiful female ‘alien’ doctor and a few Filipino male nurses held her down and shut her screams and protests with a tranquilizer, giving her crashed system, a much needed complete shut down.

Actually, ‘the aliens’ and everyone else have been really quite sweet and kept the plain truth from her, letting the reality sink in slowly in bits and pieces. Not counting the time when Hendon said to her “Alysha, kau dah gila (you've gone mad)!” after hours of non-stop talk, offering a grand theory connecting the past, cause and effect, present and future of every personal, family, state and world problem. Everyone had been quite polite, not the least her husband, the cause of her altered state of consciousness to escape the pain of adultery and loss of the ideal of romantic love.

Yet madness had no meaning to her at the moment, she was still lost in this strange new world where life and death has taken a completely different light - it was as if she had an eye and brain transplant, her sight and mind had changed irreversibly by a quantum leap when something within snapped and she saw beyond the borders of sanity. Life, Alysha, would never be the same again.

In one excited moment, she had called her new consciousness, ‘Nirvana’ excitedly calling her sister who had recently migrated to Perth telling her that she had reached that elusive state, finally, truly understood the meaning of life completely as if a crucial piece of a puzzle had fall into place. And she did not even have to leave her bed nor sit under a bodhi tree nor meditate in a cubby cave in Jabbar Nur like Muhammad. Her quest to understand her suffering had brought her to enlightenment - all it took was intense contemplation over one sleepless night about why her husband strayed and why evil and pain existed in this world. She did not blame Adam entirely, she had judged herself and found her herself guilty on some accounts. It was the longest night of her life, one that sent her to the depths of hell and to the highs of heaven and in a crazed moment, she felt a surge of power to divine into the future and blasphemously called herself a minor ‘prophetess’. Finally, she understood what it was like to do an Isra’ Mi’raj without the buraq, the winged horse with only the power of imagination. She even recalled visiting earth when it was barren of life, just beginning, a babe then, but by today’s reckoning an ancient dame.

Was her highly imaginative and stressed-up mind finally gone bonkers? Could it be a coincidence that she has always had a morbid fascination by the most lunatic of characters in novels and movies and a week before going completely nuts wondered out loud to her closest friend, Sarah what it would be like to be mad for the sheer hell of it? Hendon had wondered aloud what movies and novels the bookworm was snuggling up to before going nuts, for some insane ideas must have penetrated into her brain. Actually she would be mortified to know it was Satanic Verses by Salman Rushdie, ironically on loan by Adam’s lover, his office colleague, Jannah. Alysha never went beyond the first chapter or two while the main character was falling down the sky with a brolly, she didn’t like his confusing style, as for movies, she was watching a sci-fi portrayal of her favourite novel The Abyss. Needless to say, Alysha was an X-files junkie and loved mysteries and explorations beyond the ordinary realm.

The Malays have a saying that translates literally, “Your mouth is salty,” whenever you say a statement which may just come true and for Muslims, the power of wishful words can carry as much weight as a du’a or an invocation. Alysha had herself noted this power of words and would discover that her words while manic prove even more salty. Aware that she had crossed the unseen hairline, she had congratulated herself for crossing the borders of sanity and coming back sane and whole again, or so she prayed, and totted it up as an invaluable experience, especially in her profession.

Alysha suddenly recalled her dear former boss, an earnest wide-eyed editor at a yuppie magazine, who spoke and rolled his eyes just like the neigbourhood mamak stall man, “Alysha, why are you quitting to work from home? Before long, your mum-in-law will drive you mad.”

His words too were like a soothsayer’s, for after 10 years beginning with pre-marital tension which escalated with every day of living under the same roof, unspoken and unresolved domestic conflicts and much repressed anger turned inwards had manifested itself into depression, thankfully, of the bipolar kind which alternates between extreme poles of unbelievable euphoria, second only to blinding love, and sickening suffocating depths of depression.

She would soon decide that between the devil and the deep blue sea, she’d embrace the embarrassing and unpredictable monster of mania anytime, depression being right down toxic and darn draining to the soul while the former is just the opposite, suffusing a spiritual glow into mundane and even ordinarily sinful things. When manic, even a ride on a double decker SBS Superbus had a surreal quality of travelling through time, as past and present Singapore mingling side by side whiz by lulled by piped in elevator music. Hallucinating, the line between dream and reality excitingly faded. It was harder to tell at times whether she was dead or alive, or in between, in alam barzakh where the dead awaits for the Day of Judgement, or whether she was already in heaven, so ecstatic and contented as a Cheshire Cat licking her cream was she.

“Comb your hair and try and get some sleep. It’ll be an hour and a half at least before tea break, said nurse Lisa gently.

Milo and cream crackers…tea breaks are a calming if fattening routine of hospital life though strangely, little conversation goes with it. Most of the patients were lost in the world of their own or interacted in brief intense, sometimes explosive snippets.

She had one moment earlier on the first day she was admitted with Sasha, both of them were apparently high and she can’t quite recall how it happen or why it did but when Sasha wanted to kiss her, she suggested she did it on her lips. So that was the first time she, a grown woman kissed a grown woman on the lips. They then trotted off to the bathroom to compare breast sizes and wash each other’s hair, giggling irrepressibly like two schoolgirls. Sudden giggling fits over her private jokes would be a feature of her illness much to the annoyance of others who don’t get it and the amusement of her friends and strangers alike who are able to see the lighter and poignant side of things.

The girlish kiss reminded her of the time when she was in an all-girls government school and frequently had crushes on girls and wondered if that made her a lesbian. “Dear Diary,” she wrote, “I don’t think I’m one. It’s just that I don’t have the opportunity to meet real guys and the girls I’m admiring from afar are the ‘boyish’ ones - this must be just practising for the real thing. I think it comes with being in an all girls environment. Where are we going to let out this natural growing up tendencies to adore, admire others?”

Yet another spaced out encounter which occurred like she had been doing this sort of charismatic healing since God knows when. A lady she across her bed she can hardly converse with, a duck and a hen, as they say, for the Madam spoke little English and Alysha little Mandarin. But clearly Madam, a fragile ageing Chinese beauty with greening tattooed eyebrows suffered from blinding migraine and complained of problems with her hubby.

When he came to visit her that night, Alysha in all seriousness and calmness took their hands and joined them together and focused her thoughts to lovingly reconcile two beautiful couple she knew truly loved one another. Then she placed her hands over Madams eyes and head and massaged them, something Alysha never liked doing even for her own husband.

Whether out of politeness or the gratefulness for the care or the placebo effect, Madam was much happy with the results and kept thanking Alysha for days. The doctor explained to Alysha, that entertaining for a moment that she has somehow acquired some special powers to heal, was characteristic of mania, that is having ‘delusions of grandeur’.

What a grand term for a grand feeling - she thought Anthony Robbins may approve of her awakening the giant within. Not that she found the book worth-reading, titles, photos, essences captured on the cover sometimes suffices for her, especially when the first few pages of the book confirm that the jacket is better than the body.

Thus one of the standard questions to rate her mania was, “So, do you still think you have special powers, or you have something special to do?” Alysha found this the most annoying of all tests of her mental state and wished that the psychiatrists had devised more sophisticated tools or at least show more interest in her as a patient - help her understand why she came to low point in her life and get her out of it, preferably without dope.

Damn the drugs and the visits to the doctors. Once she missed a visit and inevitably carried on taking that zombie-making drug Haloparidol which made her so stiff and low like never before; or maybe she was just catatonic from the trauma, she swore she will never ever be a caricature of a depressed person ever who cannot even summon enough energy to brush her teeth, eat and worse, play with her beloved children. OK, so she was depressed, but she can’t help feeling the drugs worsened the symptoms. She had tried to recover at Sarah’s house to minimise the stress of living with Hendon, who was taking care of her precious baby, abruptly weaned off breast milk due to the circumstances.

The separation pained her but she was in no position to care for the baby, even Eyman who was putting up together with Adam at Sarah’s executive HDB apartment in Woodland’s was being neglected. While all the adults worked, the children, Eyman and Sarah’s three kids were being taken care by Sittah the maid, and she simply wallowed in depression in the room, unable to get out of the bed, thinking scary, sad, anxious thoughts about the past, present and future.

It was an Alysha that she had never knew existed and it terrified her, this new paralysis, this zombie-like existence which was not helped by the fact that Adam showed no remorse, nor offered much comfort although he assured the relationship was over. Their financial woes were unsettled - with her not working and bringing an income to finance the housing mortgage of the Johor house, the bills were snowballing. But she was feeling strangely disembodied by her problems and was not relating them to anyone in particular, even to Sarah who was busy working till the wee hours of the night like all the adults in the home, save Sittah. Her mother had returned to Perth to be with her younger sister Diyanah who had just delivered a premature baby boy. Her dad decided to be by her side, staying with his sister and taking up a part time teaching position to bolster his modest income from his pension. Her parents were undergoing a rocky patch in their marriage themselves, following the discovery of the bombshell in the shape of a sexy not so innocent Indonesian thing, her sister’s age.

In everyone’s busyness and in her depression, no one noticed that she missed her doctor’s appointment and she kept popping the little green pills which she suspect was making her dazed and sleepy and stiff. She slept, teetered and tottered, trapped in the apartment for a couple of months like a mummy in shock. When she finally realised it was time to see the doctor, he insisted that she be hospitalised for the second time so that he could monitor her response to the new drug - Prozac, in case she swung from depression, to mania again. Which she promptly did with great relief on Christmas Eve.

Well, it’s not for nothing it’s called bi-polar mood disorder, this thing she’s afflicted with. For someone who was on the surface a calm and moderate personality, she’s now an officially moody person. Hopefully, it’s just a temporary aberration brought about by these recent stressful life events. Who wants a reputation as a stark naked raving lunatic for life? Labels are scary. They are sticky, foggy, ill-fitting, misleading…please let them be temporary. Just leave her simply Alysha - was, is, will be.

An the owl sleeps not tonight

It's nearly 3 am and I haven't had any sleep. I have to be awake at 5 am and I am tempted not to take any rest and work through till I have to wake Ayesha up for school. I haven't had late nights for so long. Early to bed and late to rise has been my policy for almost a year that I have stayed healthy most of the time, having highs on two occasions without having to be admitted into hospital.

Tonight I went for a talk on Romance of Islam and had dinner with my friends after that, catching the last train at 11.30 pm, walking briskly for 20 minutes to Eunos MRT station. I have quite a fair bit of work on my plate now, with the new task of writing for a documentary series on the different heritages in Singapore.

Now that the work is starting, I have to all the more take care of my health to ensure that I stay episode free. I'd like to see how this one night of no or little sleep will affect my mood. My gut instinct is that it won't, I will sleep another four hours after Ayesha goes to school and it will be sufficient. If I am sleepy during the day I will take a nap.

I enjoy walking so I think I have to start on my walking programme and start on yoga next week. My prayers is also a good stretching exercise five times a day and I feel calm and refreshed after each session.

My counselor is very proud of me to have made it for almost a year without hospitalisation. This is a far cry from two or three hospitalisations a year which are costly and disruptive. I am bent on doing well for the next year. My target is a yearly one, but everyday I track my mood to see that I am on the healthy range.

Today my mood is a 7 on the scale of 0 for catatonically depressed to 10 for manic and ecstatic. I am happy to meet a young film maker who will be my director for my project and another partner to the project who will look at the marketing side of it. I spent the afternoon with them at Kampong Glam before spending the night with another group of friends at The Muslim Converts Association of Singapore.

The topic was the love of Layla and Majnun a love story that has enthralled generations with an unconsummated love which ends in the death of both lovers who were separated at most of their lives, to be reunited perhaps in death. The speaker used the tale to talk about the who and what and the being. What matters most and who is secondary, but both contributes to the being. What we humans are are servants of Allah who enjoins goodness and forbids wrongdoings. We are the best of creations whom even the angels bow to as commanded by Allah. We are given knowledge and are thus superior than other creations.

I am starting to feel sleepy, I enjoyed going out at night, as seldom do I have appointments at night and I am actually more an owl than a lark, but I have trained myself to sleep by midnight, though I toss and turn for the first hour and usually wake up in the middle of the night for a snack. Today I had a little mee siam and abuk-abuk both Malay delicacies which are my favourite.

Guess I should get some shut eye now. May I have ecstatic dreams as I usually have.



Saturday, 19 March 2011

Funny animals

Love is a funny animal. It makes you wake up eager to a brand new day and sleep to a lover's good night's kiss. Love that blooms suddenly on the internet is even funnier, it makes you feel good in a a world divorced from reality. You have never met, you have not seen each other and yet you love whole-heartedly, believe in a dream which you hope will come true, a dream of "and they live happily ever after." Time. Only time will tell.

Today I started and ended one article and my usual record time of a few hours when the adrenaline flows. It is about a friend who is an ex-con and an artist. Now a graphic artist, he has a bright future in front of him despite spending nineteen years behind bars. Yuhazreen is an intriguing personality that my article did not fully capture. There are parts of his life which are secret and only he knows and I have been privy to a glimpse of it. I mostly love his smile and go-getter attitude to life. And he has one beautiful baby Amberreen who is such a doll with her continuous giggles at just three months.

I am having pengat kledek - sweet potato dessert in sweetened coconut milk, just a little so I won't crave for it and just so it won't fatten me up. Tomorrow I am going out with my Apekman, my dear friend and we want to explore another form of meditation. I am looking forward to going out on an exciting journey of learning and self-discovery.

This week I met an interesting friend who is half Japanese and half Arab and we had a nice time with Hamidah at my favourite place HeavenScene which was rocking that night with a hen party. We all three were kept dancing in our seats.

Tuesday, 1 March 2011

Bites and pieces

I am delicately eating this plain yogurt which is so yummy and tangy. I am making sure I have yogurt in my daily diet as my personal nutritionist and friend recommends it. He says my medicines destroys the good bacteria in my body and I have to replenish it with yoghurt's good bacteria. Something like that. Anyway it is delicious even without a sprinkling of sugar that I used to put. Too much sugar is bad for me he says as it upsets my highs and lows. He he, I actually enjoy his nutritional advice and putting it to practice. Which reminds me, I want to cook brown rice today.

There's so many chores to do, laundry, cleaning up the house, washing the dishes, argh...I am in no mood to do. I am in the mood of getting my article of FB boutique moms done. I think I have collected enough interviews to do the write up.

Yesterday I had a nice time with my friend Shareah who is a caricaturist and artist and we shared a lot more than we ever did when we worked in SPH together. I used to come to her with a specification for a graphics and she would do a good job usually and that was how close we are. Now we are in the midst of working on the same project and I hope I will learn from her enthusiasm and energy which is amazing. I imagine her coming to Singapore from Johor Bahru for her meetings and I think it takes so much energy. I am getting tired of travelling from Jurong to anywhere else in town or further.

I think my tiredness is due to my weight and less than ideal comfortable shoes which has resulted in four sometimes painful corns. I put the corn plasters but they have not been effective in removing the corns. Perhaps I need more than the three times applications I had so far. Yukks...why I am talking about my bodily imperfections.

Today I received a decent proposal which I will consider with my heart and mind and soul. Let Allah show the way. Until there is some certainty in deeds, I will let the matter rest. Now I want to have a good shower after all the washing and cleaning and mopping and have a short nap before I work on my story.


Thursday, 24 February 2011

Passing with flying colours

Has it been three weeks ago since I last wrote. Many things have happened including one episode of high during the Chinese New Year period. I enjoyed myself so much that I went beyond boundaries. That's what happens when I am high.

Anyway I am not going to look at the trespasses as the success of keeping the high under control such that I did not need hospitalisations. It is difficult but maybe I am just getting the hang of driving this body so that it does not head for collisions.

Shariq is all but taking the credit for his nutritional advice to me. I am not so sure if that was a factor but it may well be. I think the Illness Management and Recovery programme has a a greater role to play.

I thank God for making me pass this test with flying colours.

Tuesday, 1 February 2011

An Apple a Day Keeps the Doctor at Bay


I woke up and prepared breakfast for Ayesha as usual which is no more than a cereal drink, he breakfast on the rush and today she did not want her sandwiches. I reached for the kueh bingka, a tapioca based Malay cake and went OOPS. I forgot my apple in the morning diet which I started with Mei's urging. So I reached for my Fuji apple and bit into the rawness of it all. Sweet and juicy, but I am only starting to get the taste for apples again. An apple a day keeps the doctor away and I will tell you why later.


I am feeling healthier with the dietary changes I have made slowly but surely over the past two months thanks to my friends Shariq and Mei who have opened up my eyes and heart to eating healthy. Some of the changes that I have introduced are:


1. Less sugar, substitute with raw sugar.

2. Drink apple cider and honey water before meals.

3. Eat an apple each morning with lots of water.

4. Drink less coffee.

5. Eat brown rice, organic baby oats and other whole-grain foods.

6. Eat wheat grass capsules.

7. Opt for healthier snacks like sunflower and pumpkin seeds.


It is not much but I think the changes have contributed to a more alert and glowing me. I had a few compliments that I am glowing with health and I can see it too.


I hope to reap the rewards of weight loss as time goes by. Shariq asks me not to be too concerned with weight loss which will come surely if I am eating right. I think I have only lost one kg so far.


These are the reasons why an apple a day keeps the doctor away:



  1. Apples contain vitamin C which helps boost your immune system.
  2. Ripe apples contain around 80% water and almost no fat.
  3. Apples will provide you with energy.
  4. Apples are rich in flavonoids. Flavonoids contain antioxidants.
  5. Because apples contain flavonoids they can prevent coronary heart disease and cardiovascular disease.
  6. Apples are a great source of fiber and help to aid digestion and promote weight loss.
  7. Apples contain phloridzin. This may protect post-menopausal women from osteoporosis and may also increase bone density.
  8. Apples are low in calories. A typical apple will contain 70-100 calories, 0.36g protein and 0.23g fat.
  9. Apples target multiple cancers such as colon cancer, prostate cancer and breast cancer in women.
  10. Apples contain phenols. Phenols reduce bad cholesterol and increase good cholesterol.
  11. Phenols also prevent LDL cholesterol from turning into oxidized LDL, a dangerous form of bad cholesterol.
  12. Apples prevent tooth decay. The juice of the apple can kill around 80% of bacteria.
  13. Apples are a low GI food so you don’t get that sugar high and then crash.
  14. Apples are a great snacking option in between meals.
  15. Apples have a high percentage of water in their make up which can help contribute to you daily water intake.
  16. Apples contain substances called phytonutrients. These prevent neurodegenerative diseases like Alzheimer’s and Parkinson’s.
  17. Apples also contain quercetin. This may protect brain cells from the kind of free radical damage that may lead to Alzheimer’s disease.
  18. Quercetin has also been found to help prevent the growth of prostate cancer cells.
  19. People who eat 5 apples or more per week have lower respiratory problems, including asthma.
  20. Children with asthma who drink apple juice on a daily basis suffer from less wheezing.
  21. Apples contain Boron which strengthens bones.
  22. Rats fed 6 apples per day reduced their breast cance risk by 44 percent (Cornell University).
  23. Pectin in apples reduces the risk of colon cancer and helps maintain a healthy digestive tract.
  24. Pectin in apples supplies galacturonic acid to the body which lowers the body’s need for insulin and may help in the management of diabetes.
  25. Apples are a great source of vitamins, minerals and other important chemicals.
  26. Apples are also found to play a role in inhibiting age related problems, preventing wrinkles and promoting hair growth.
  27. Apples contain potassium, which is needed for regulation of water balance and muscle function.
  28. Apples are great for detoxifying the body.
  29. Women who eat three apples a day lose more weight while dieting than women who do not eat fruit while dieting.
  30. Apples taste great and come in may different varieties!

Sunday, 30 January 2011

Out after the rain

The never-ending rain these days have kept me captive at home for nearly two weeks I feel or even more. I can't remember when was the last time I went out such is my poor memory. It seems too much of an effort to figure out this and that, what happened where and when, so I am happily oblivious to things.

Like Ayesha was so annoyed with me not knowing the number of clicks of the fan to put at which speed. To my credit I know the clicks for the brightness of the light. Speaking of which the light bulb in my toilet has been changed for months and I have been used to doing things in the dark at night. Too bad Hykel is too short. Maybe he is not, as for me I am afraid to climb on a higher rung of the ladder to change the lights.

Maybe I can make use of the workmen who will come to change my toilet flooring. Too bad there is not much choice of tiles in this HDB initiated renovation. The apartment below is experiencing water leaks on their walls from our floor which needs to be water-proofed. I can't bear to think of the hacking and dust in my bedroom on 14th, 15th and 16th of February.

The 16th is my dad's birthday and just now my mum and I went to Jurong Point to get his present, which was a perfume and two boxes of handkerchiefs. It is also my neighbour's son's birthday.

On the 4th is my new friend's birthday. She is hearing impaired and a mother of four children. I would like to make her happier with the chocolate cake she wishes for herself and chicken for her children. I cannot afford much to give away but what I have I will gladly give. I tried to get her fans, wardrobe and a double bed through an announcement on facebook but so far I managed to get her fans. I wonder how it will be when I meet her when I cannot sign and she cannot talk. My sister used to teach at the deaf school and I wonder if she still remembers her sign language.

I'm glad I went out with my mum and with Ummi for just a short time, but it felt good to be out in the fresh cooling air. No need for fan these days too.